Thursday, July 17, 2014

22 Weeks and OB Appointment

Yesterday was my 22 week OB appointment and things went well. I have been sick for the past few days, throwing up and bad cramps. My OB thinks I have a virus. Phew that made me feel so much better. He said if it doesn't clear up in next few days to call him back and also keep an eye on my discharge. If there are any changes from the clear watery discharge to mucus then to let him know. The babies both had great heartbeats, 157 & 165. He did my fundal measurement and when I asked he said I was measuring a little large, but it's because of twins. I didn't ask for specific measurements. I have been trying really hard to let go of some control :) Good news, I only gained four pounds within the last month and that made me smile. Weight isn't a big issue for me and if I gain that is fine, but I want to try to stay pretty healthy through the process and give babies what they need. I also would like to stay within normal ranges for weight gain with the girls. My OB did talk with my MFM and they really want me back on the 80 mg of Lovenox daily. As of now, Dr. Kim has me on 40mg every other day. She said if we start seeing growth issues with the babies then she will increase. Well after talking with my OB yesterday, they feel at that point it will be a little late in the game. So local doctors win this round and I started on my 80 mg today. We will be very cautious about the bleeding and if I start, we will cut back immediately. BTW, have I told you how awesome it feels going a month now without daily bleeding?? It feels freaking amazing! What isn't so amazing is redoing my glucose test next appointment. He wants me to redo the one hour test first (which I know I will fail) and then on to the three hour test. Oh well at least I can get it over with quickly.

In other news, my MFM appointment is on July 30th, which happens to be 24 weeks! They will do measurements to see how big the girls are. I am hoping they will be over a pound by then, or even bigger would be fantastic. 

Now on to my rant:
I am a member of a pregnancy after infertility group in facebook (WHICH I LOVE)! most of the woman came from my infertility group and we all have been there to support each other through thick and thin. Problem is, there aren't a lot of twin moms so I joined a few twin mom groups for information and support. I try to be an active member, but it is so hard. So many of these woman just complain and complain. I know that my pregnancy hasn't been all smooth sailing and honestly, some of it plain sucks, but what does constant complaining really accomplish? If I complain daily over and over, will my shortness of breath disappear? That would be pretty freaking awesome :) Either way, sometimes we have to put our own needs and discomforts on the backburner for the larger picture of our children. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with admitting you're having a bad day or in pain, sick etc. but when it is everyday and it is always about you, you, you, it gets very old and most of us get tired of hearing it. 
I just wish I could find a twin group like my other facebook group... I don't think it exists though :(


7 comments:

  1. I am so happy to hear all is well with you and those sweet girls! As for complaining, well...I for one may say I'm sick or whatever, but You sure as heck won't hear me complaining about a moment of this pregnancy. I'm too grateful for all that's going right to dare utter a word of complaint. I love the quote about the rose bush and thorns. So perfect! Can't wait to hear about your MFM appointment!

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  2. I am so happy to hear all is well with you and those sweet girls! As for complaining, well...I for one may say I'm sick or whatever, but You sure as heck won't hear me complaining about a moment of this pregnancy. I'm too grateful for all that's going right to dare utter a word of complaint. I love the quote about the rose bush and thorns. So perfect! Can't wait to hear about your MFM appointment!

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  3. Wow!!!! I can't believe you are already 22 weeks. I know it's always feels so slow when your the one carrying, but so fast for an outsider. So glad they are growing great!!! Congrats on no bleeding.....yay!!!! Feel better!! Can't wait for the 24 week check up!!

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  4. I would have a hard time with the complaining as well. Congrats on 22 weeks. Hope your cramps and vomiting stops…that's no fun!

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  5. Awwww you love us. ;) I agree. Sure everyone deserves the right to complain here and there but who wants to hear that all the time. Especially from girls who struggled. That doesn't make sense to me. I'd give anything to feel miserable for 9 months.

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  6. 22 weeks. Gah! Seems like it was just yesterday you found out you were pregnant! I had joined a multiples site, but ended up dropping it because I just got tired of the complaining. It wasn't supportive hardly at all. I hope you know you can ALWAYS ask me questions about twin parenting/pregnancy stuff. Or if you just need to bounce ideas around, or even complain every once in awhile too. I KNOW that twin pregnancy is tough and sometimes you do need a shoulder to cry on, it just does no good to do it all the time!

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  7. I found your blog as I was getting a head start on ICLW! I am so hopeful to see your posts as I, too, just found out that maybe...maybe.... (fingers and eyes crossed!) we might be having twins after a two previous miscarriages. Your blog gives me so much hope!! Happy 22 weeks to you!!

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