May the force be with me.
Thursday, January 30, 2014
IVIG Tomorrow
Tomorrow is a busy day. I have my cd 11 u/s in the morning and then I have to mosey home for my second IVIG infusion.
May the force be with me.
May the force be with me.
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
Seeing Humor Through The Struggle
Sitting in my RE's office triggered this post today. For me humor is very important. It helps keep me on point going through this struggle and without it I would be a very crappy person that no one would want to be around. You know those people that moan and complain about everything in the world?? Yeah that is the person I would be and if that were the case I would ask my husband to seriously divorce me :) So here are a few things that I have found humor in through this struggle:
1. The jar of condoms at the RE office. The thought of condoms and infertility always makes me laugh.
2. #1 leads me to #2. The dildo cam covered with a condom. Okay I know the reason for this action, but I still giggle because I always think " yeah the dildo needs to practice safe sex also.
#3 My RE has honestly seen my vagina more than ANY and ALL men I've ever had in my life. This includes the years of marriage with my husband.
#4 The whole conversation my doctor has with me while he is down south. Today he was talking about the Legislative Laws for the year and was interested to see what they would come up with. I could have this conversation over dinner, but it is a little hard when you are peaking at the top of your doctors head between your legs.
#5 Okay this one I don't know first hand, but my husband has told me about the "collection" room. Lets think about this one, if your clinic is making millions of dollars from infertile couples going through treatment, could you not at least put good porn in the collection room? No matter how hot a couple is, I don't think a lady with an afro and blue eye shadow is going to do it? Also a gallon jug of lotion? Couldn't you be a little more surprising and put a cute little bottle of heated ky jelly with a bow on it? Maybe a little mint for after they are done?? I think that would make happier husbands which in return would make happier sperm.
#6 While sitting in a waiting room and the nurse says out loud, "Did you bring your sample or do you need to collect here"? Well we all know that it is not a urine sample and then you have to giggle because you totally know what the poor guy is going to do. This is one thing I don't get involved in with my husband. He does all the dropping off/collection on his own.
#7 Okay so you had your procedure done and they tell you not to take a pregnancy test because it might not be accurate. How in the holy hell is it accurate for 100 million other people, but not for you?
#8 For anyone that has ever had ivf and did progesterone shots. Did your nurse take a permanent sharpie marker and draw a bulls eye on your ass? Well let me tell you how freaking sexy that one is! You can remind your husband that the bulls eye is ONLY for the progesterone shot!
#9 I won't even touch the whole point of trying to have sex while ttc.
#10 The names we come up with for the dildo cam. Our husbands seem to name their cars and we name a giant ass pole being stuck up our vaginas.
Just another day in Infertility Land.... I hope that I made at least one of you smile today. Laughter truly helps through the struggle.
1. The jar of condoms at the RE office. The thought of condoms and infertility always makes me laugh.
2. #1 leads me to #2. The dildo cam covered with a condom. Okay I know the reason for this action, but I still giggle because I always think " yeah the dildo needs to practice safe sex also.
#3 My RE has honestly seen my vagina more than ANY and ALL men I've ever had in my life. This includes the years of marriage with my husband.
#4 The whole conversation my doctor has with me while he is down south. Today he was talking about the Legislative Laws for the year and was interested to see what they would come up with. I could have this conversation over dinner, but it is a little hard when you are peaking at the top of your doctors head between your legs.
#5 Okay this one I don't know first hand, but my husband has told me about the "collection" room. Lets think about this one, if your clinic is making millions of dollars from infertile couples going through treatment, could you not at least put good porn in the collection room? No matter how hot a couple is, I don't think a lady with an afro and blue eye shadow is going to do it? Also a gallon jug of lotion? Couldn't you be a little more surprising and put a cute little bottle of heated ky jelly with a bow on it? Maybe a little mint for after they are done?? I think that would make happier husbands which in return would make happier sperm.
#6 While sitting in a waiting room and the nurse says out loud, "Did you bring your sample or do you need to collect here"? Well we all know that it is not a urine sample and then you have to giggle because you totally know what the poor guy is going to do. This is one thing I don't get involved in with my husband. He does all the dropping off/collection on his own.
#7 Okay so you had your procedure done and they tell you not to take a pregnancy test because it might not be accurate. How in the holy hell is it accurate for 100 million other people, but not for you?
#8 For anyone that has ever had ivf and did progesterone shots. Did your nurse take a permanent sharpie marker and draw a bulls eye on your ass? Well let me tell you how freaking sexy that one is! You can remind your husband that the bulls eye is ONLY for the progesterone shot!
#9 I won't even touch the whole point of trying to have sex while ttc.
#10 The names we come up with for the dildo cam. Our husbands seem to name their cars and we name a giant ass pole being stuck up our vaginas.
Just another day in Infertility Land.... I hope that I made at least one of you smile today. Laughter truly helps through the struggle.
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Colorado 2014
Well for the first time in a long time, I am excited! Yesterday while putting the finishing touches on our Colorado trip I came across the Stanley Hotel. For those of you not familiar with this hotel, it is the one they used in the filming of The Shining. I immediately went on and booked a beautiful expensive room for two night there. Of course my thinking when trying to calm my husband down on the price shock was........ this is a priceless visit. How many times will we be near the Stanley Hotel? Of course I have booked the ghost tour and they play The Shining 24/7 on one of the channels on the t.v. Could it possible get any better? Here are a few pictures I pulled off the internet.
I am also excited about visiting Pagosa Springs. We are staying at a resort there and it has 23 hot springs you can go soak in. Here are a few pictures of it.....
Since we are going to be gone for 8 days, I still have a few other things brewing for this trip. Unfortunately we cancelled our trip to Dallas for our four year anniversary. After talking last night, we decided to pour our money into this trip instead.
TTC news:
Yesterdays appointment went fine. Looks like I will have 4-5 follicles for our iui this month. I have my IVIG treatment Friday. My lining was 8.5 on cd7 which totally rocked!
I am also excited about visiting Pagosa Springs. We are staying at a resort there and it has 23 hot springs you can go soak in. Here are a few pictures of it.....
Since we are going to be gone for 8 days, I still have a few other things brewing for this trip. Unfortunately we cancelled our trip to Dallas for our four year anniversary. After talking last night, we decided to pour our money into this trip instead.
TTC news:
Yesterdays appointment went fine. Looks like I will have 4-5 follicles for our iui this month. I have my IVIG treatment Friday. My lining was 8.5 on cd7 which totally rocked!
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Wordpress Blog /TTC Update/Trips
I have some new followers that use wordpress. Please be patient with me as I have visited your blogs and actually went to comment, but I'm having technical difficulties. I tried to set up a new wordpress blog about a month ago and couldn't figure it out. Now every time I want to leave a comment on one of these blogs, it requires me to log in on my wordpress and I keep losing my password. I will get all of this straightened out, but want you ladies to know that I am indeed reading your blogs.
TTC News:
Nothing major going on. Today is CD6 and I can proudly say I haven't temped so far for this cycle. It is going hand and hand with all the other things I have given up on for our quest to procreate. I have 3 months still paid up on FF so I might start temping around ovulation. I go in tomorrow for our CD7 u/s and b/w. Since our last crazy stim cycle with Follistim, the doctor cut my dose from 150 IU to 100IU in hopes my ovaries won't think we are having an IVF cycle without the funding to do so :) Fingers crossed I only produce about 4-6 nice plump follicles this month. Even though we are near the end of our reproducing phase, I still plan on doing my treatments every month until it is time to quit. I still plan on doing my lovenox injections, predisone, metformin, stims, IVIG and IUI or TI. I was looking through all my meds and I believe I have enough until the end of this year. Instead of a little chipmunk stockpiling nuts for the winter, I am the crazy infertility lady that stockpiles months and months of synthetic hormones :)
Trips:
Before I forget, I have been planning on of our trips for the year. I found a great hotel in downtown Dallas for our 4 year anniversary April 25th. I will also share more details when I get things totally locked in, but our Colorado trip in May is looking amazing. I found a resort/spa that has 23 hot springs on the property. They are all different sizes and temps. Plus it is located right near a river that has the run off from mountains. If you get to hot, you can go jump in for a quick swim. I know we are planning on some white water rafting, visiting Rocky Mountain National Park, Blackhawk casino resort and some other things still in the works. We also have a Christmas trip planned to New York. This is mainly an early graduation present for my daughter. I am really looking forward to our traveling this year.
TTC News:
Nothing major going on. Today is CD6 and I can proudly say I haven't temped so far for this cycle. It is going hand and hand with all the other things I have given up on for our quest to procreate. I have 3 months still paid up on FF so I might start temping around ovulation. I go in tomorrow for our CD7 u/s and b/w. Since our last crazy stim cycle with Follistim, the doctor cut my dose from 150 IU to 100IU in hopes my ovaries won't think we are having an IVF cycle without the funding to do so :) Fingers crossed I only produce about 4-6 nice plump follicles this month. Even though we are near the end of our reproducing phase, I still plan on doing my treatments every month until it is time to quit. I still plan on doing my lovenox injections, predisone, metformin, stims, IVIG and IUI or TI. I was looking through all my meds and I believe I have enough until the end of this year. Instead of a little chipmunk stockpiling nuts for the winter, I am the crazy infertility lady that stockpiles months and months of synthetic hormones :)
Trips:
Before I forget, I have been planning on of our trips for the year. I found a great hotel in downtown Dallas for our 4 year anniversary April 25th. I will also share more details when I get things totally locked in, but our Colorado trip in May is looking amazing. I found a resort/spa that has 23 hot springs on the property. They are all different sizes and temps. Plus it is located right near a river that has the run off from mountains. If you get to hot, you can go jump in for a quick swim. I know we are planning on some white water rafting, visiting Rocky Mountain National Park, Blackhawk casino resort and some other things still in the works. We also have a Christmas trip planned to New York. This is mainly an early graduation present for my daughter. I am really looking forward to our traveling this year.
Friday, January 24, 2014
Thursday, January 23, 2014
Food for thought.
I know that so many of you going through this can COMPLETELY relate to what I am getting ready to discuss. Here we go.
I remember when we were first trying to get pregnant and everyone was telling me to eat pineapple core while in the tww. This is suppose to aid in implantation (FAIL)
I remember starting 81mg aspirin because this was also suppose to aid in implantation (FAIL)
Laying in bed with my feet up over my head like an idiot for ten minutes (FAIL)
Putting a tampon in after ejaculation to help keep everyone in place (FAIL)
Having sex in certain positions to help get spermies into fighting position (FAIL)
Acupuncture (FAIL)
Cut down on carbs (FAIL)
Exercise (FAIL)
Lose some weight and get BMI at 25 or under (FAIL)
Cut gluten out ( was going to try and now I am realizing I am done, so FAIL)
Pump your body full of progesterone (FAIL)
Cut out caffeine (FAIL)
No alcohol (FAIL)
No iubeprofen during the tww (FAIL)
No heating pads during tww (FAIL)
No sex during tww (FAIL)
Take a shitload of vitamins daily (FAIL) Now you officially look like a senior citizen and can prove it by your big ass pill divider.
I am sure that I am missing about 100 other things and please feel free to add something. Now after four years I have been doing most of this stuff. I absolutely refuse to put my legs over my head after intercourse. That made for an interesting picture once.
We all give up so much and are willing to try anything that has worked from a woman in a group or something that googled showed or something we read about. Well ladies I am done. I am not being Debbie Downer, but I am freaking done with all this crazy ass stuff. It has robbed so much of my time within the past four years and I am done. For the remainder of our treatment, I will just go through treatment PERIOD. I am not jumping through circus hoops anymore like a trained dog.
Now this morning I am going to sit here drink my strong coffee, followed by a few glasses of wine after work and then I may have sex and ask my husband to pull out just to give mother nature a good laugh at the end of the day.
I remember when we were first trying to get pregnant and everyone was telling me to eat pineapple core while in the tww. This is suppose to aid in implantation (FAIL)
I remember starting 81mg aspirin because this was also suppose to aid in implantation (FAIL)
Laying in bed with my feet up over my head like an idiot for ten minutes (FAIL)
Putting a tampon in after ejaculation to help keep everyone in place (FAIL)
Having sex in certain positions to help get spermies into fighting position (FAIL)
Acupuncture (FAIL)
Cut down on carbs (FAIL)
Exercise (FAIL)
Lose some weight and get BMI at 25 or under (FAIL)
Cut gluten out ( was going to try and now I am realizing I am done, so FAIL)
Pump your body full of progesterone (FAIL)
Cut out caffeine (FAIL)
No alcohol (FAIL)
No iubeprofen during the tww (FAIL)
No heating pads during tww (FAIL)
No sex during tww (FAIL)
Take a shitload of vitamins daily (FAIL) Now you officially look like a senior citizen and can prove it by your big ass pill divider.
I am sure that I am missing about 100 other things and please feel free to add something. Now after four years I have been doing most of this stuff. I absolutely refuse to put my legs over my head after intercourse. That made for an interesting picture once.
We all give up so much and are willing to try anything that has worked from a woman in a group or something that googled showed or something we read about. Well ladies I am done. I am not being Debbie Downer, but I am freaking done with all this crazy ass stuff. It has robbed so much of my time within the past four years and I am done. For the remainder of our treatment, I will just go through treatment PERIOD. I am not jumping through circus hoops anymore like a trained dog.
Now this morning I am going to sit here drink my strong coffee, followed by a few glasses of wine after work and then I may have sex and ask my husband to pull out just to give mother nature a good laugh at the end of the day.
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
January ICLW
It has been a while since I fully participated in ICLW. I was getting ready to say here is a "quick" rundown of my ttc journey, but it will be a little bit of a longer rundown. Get some popcorn and a comfy seat :)
My husband and I are both 38. We have been married for almost four years and he doesn't have any children. I was previously married in my late teens/early 20's and had my one and only daughter. She is 16 and a junior in high school. Within the past four years we have been through every treatment that goes along with infertility. 6 IUI's, 2 IVF's, dozen of TI cycles with either clomid, femara. We have suffered through six miscarriages. Actually 5 chemical pregnancies and 1 miscarriage after a heartbeat was detected. 2 Hysteroscopy surgeries and 1 LAP surgery. As you can see, we have been pregnant many times, but my RE thought I had bad egg quality. Earlier this year we saved money and made a trip to Chicago to see a Reproductive Immunologist and she diagnosed with me PCOS, along with numerous inflammatory issues, blood clotting issues, and several mutated gene issues. She started me on a new medical protocol which consists of daily blood thinner shots, steroids, and other medications used to help the immune issues. I also recently started IVIG infusions which is an IV you get once a month and is made from about 1,000 different plasma donors. This is suppose to suppress my immune system and aid in implantation. We have been doing this for several months now. This February will be a year since my last pregnancy/loss. Here is the kicker though. My husband and I have been talking for years on when is the time we move on. We have both decided that the end of this year when we turn 39 will be our time. So the clock is ticking quickly. I think in my heart that this journey is almost over for us. I also know that I can't dwell on that fact because it will make me a miserable nasty person and I refuse to be that.
So if you are just now finding my blog, you have found me in a transition period. We will continue doing IUI's until the end of the year. After that time, I am still not sure what will happen to this space or where to go. Definitely new doors opening along with new possibilities.
Thanks for stopping by my little corner of the blog world. Please feel free to leave a message and I would love to stop by and visit you.
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Almost that time
I have been thinking about this for several months now. It is almost time for Al and I to move on to another chapter of our lives. Am I ready? 98% of my heart tells me yes and the other 2% wants to keep trying for a baby as long as I can. We are rounding four years. Four very long years of so many challenges. It is so hard to imagine that people are subjected to this in order to have something that should have been gifted to each and every woman. I am looking forward to see where life takes me after this is over. I am interested to see how it effects Al and I and our relationship. I am interested to see what decisions we will make with our lives, what we will spend money on after there are no more treatments left. Interested to know if we will be able to live our lives full and enriched if there we can't have a child. Will we be able to enjoy our trips and vacations? Will we be able to keep having fun with family members babies and enjoy the fact that we can do anything on the drop of a dime? What will happen to this blog and my infertility facebook group? Both this blog and my group have been such a huge part of my life for several years now. One thing is for sure, I wouldn't want to go through this with anyone other than my husband. I can't imagine going through this with any other person. Still my heart is somewhat sadden that we have done so much within the last few years and still without our baby. I also know that I can't dwell over what is not going to be or what is not meant to be.
So it is almost that time............................... I am going to go into this with as much grace and poise as humanly possible. I am hoping to eventually shed less and less tears and truly accept what has been given to us and to make the best out of it. Mostly I will try to be thankful everyday for what I do have in my life even though I haven't been given everything I wanted so deeply.
Monday, January 20, 2014
First day gf
Well today is my first day of eating gluten free. To be honest I have no idea why I am giving this a shot except, it can't hurt anything and I have tried every other thing to get pregnant. This task is going to be very difficult for me because I am not a healthy eater nor do I like exercising (at all). Not sure if it is possible but I don't want to go crazy gf, maybe starter gf? I also guess I should say "pretty" close to gf. I won't be one of the people who exam every single thing that comes across my mouth at restaurant etc. I am mainly cutting out ALL breads, tortillas, pastas, soy sauce, some dressings (although hidden valley said their ranch is gluten free), candy (that one is going to be hard),processed meat. I think you all get the point. I am going to give this a fair chance and try it for at least a few months. Who knows, I might like it and I might lose weight :) Then if we don't get pregnant by our deadline I will at least be a sexy beast!
Sunday, January 19, 2014
Mistake
This month I made a rookie mistake. When I say rookie mistake I am referring to my own experiences and not others who are going through infertility. I got my hopes up on a cycle. This hasn't happened but a few times since we have been trying to have a baby. I found that the let down is so much worse when you get your hopes up and think a cycle is going to work, verses just focusing on the treatment and future treatments. I am not sure what it was that made me put my guard down. Maybe the fact that I had my first IVIG treatment, maybe the fact that my progesterone was almost 20 on 5DPO, maybe the cramps and back pain I had, maybe the spotting I had on 9DPO? Yes while looking at all the things I can see why I got my hopes up, but it was my rookie mistake and I won't be doing this again. I need to get my head back in the game and focus on treatment and treatment plans.
I know that many people reading this right now might think that I need to have hope a cycle is going to work and get pumped about it. Maybe years ago I would have agreed with you, but I am way past that point and just trying to deal with things I have control of and not get carried away with those that I don't. It is times like this that I allow myself to get emotionally vested and in order to keep sanity I can't do that, I just can't.
What ifs........................ I truly dislike what ifs.
My husband said something to me yesterday that totally made me stop in my tracks. We were talking about how I haven't been pregnant in almost a year. I told him that I just don't understand what is going on. He said that maybe the new immune treatments I am on aren't helping, but making things worse. I don't think it could make things worse, but I am almost wondering if it is truly helping me? It has only been about 4-5 months doing this treatment, but one does have to wonder. It wears me down. It really really does. I know that everything I do is for a baby and I don't have any other choice but to do it, but it really does break you down slowly. No matter how strong, how determined you are, it chips away slowly and steady.
I sent my husband to the store today and he is buying me a 2 liter of Pepsi. I am going to have a few glasses, probably eat some carbs, listen to Pandora and sulk for a day. Tomorrow will be a new day with new starts for next cycle.
What I feel is impossible today may be possible tomorrow.
I know that many people reading this right now might think that I need to have hope a cycle is going to work and get pumped about it. Maybe years ago I would have agreed with you, but I am way past that point and just trying to deal with things I have control of and not get carried away with those that I don't. It is times like this that I allow myself to get emotionally vested and in order to keep sanity I can't do that, I just can't.
What ifs........................ I truly dislike what ifs.
My husband said something to me yesterday that totally made me stop in my tracks. We were talking about how I haven't been pregnant in almost a year. I told him that I just don't understand what is going on. He said that maybe the new immune treatments I am on aren't helping, but making things worse. I don't think it could make things worse, but I am almost wondering if it is truly helping me? It has only been about 4-5 months doing this treatment, but one does have to wonder. It wears me down. It really really does. I know that everything I do is for a baby and I don't have any other choice but to do it, but it really does break you down slowly. No matter how strong, how determined you are, it chips away slowly and steady.
I sent my husband to the store today and he is buying me a 2 liter of Pepsi. I am going to have a few glasses, probably eat some carbs, listen to Pandora and sulk for a day. Tomorrow will be a new day with new starts for next cycle.
What I feel is impossible today may be possible tomorrow.
Friday, January 17, 2014
No more funny infertility Friday
Well after about two years of posting, I have finally ran out of funny infertility pics. Searching high and low and under rocks, but they have all been used. I have decided to turn my funny infertility Friday into inspirational infertility Friday :) I don't know about any of you, but I for one love seeing inspirational pics and sayings. It has really helped me out of a few dark corners so far and I foresee many more.
Hope you all enjoy as much as I do:
Hope you all enjoy as much as I do:
TTC news:
Today is either 9DPO/10DPO and another bfn.
Thursday, January 16, 2014
Consult with Dr. Kim
Last week I received an email that Dr. Kim wanted to have a phone consult with me regarding my IVIG treatment and the reaction I had. I guess the main problem was the headache I had a week leading into the infusion. She told me to never go into a infusion with a headache, that it will only make things worse. I guess the proteins build up in my vessels and people who suffer from migraines already have bigger vessels which cause water retention of some sort. The proteins will trigger a migraine for those of us already suffering with on going headaches etc. They are going to cut my infusion from 25 grams to 5 grams and lengthen the infusion to five hours and split it up so I have an infusion and the other half of infusion a day later. They will also add saline to help dilute the proteins some, benadryl is suppose to help with the reaction and I am to start my Prednisone two days before the infusion to also help with reaction. My post IVIG blood work came back and my TH/1TH/2 Cytokines are still elevated. I asked if that was common after a treatment. She said yes because they are a smaller cell verses the NK cells and take multiple treatments to get down. She said they are a lot slower verses the NK cells which can go down after one treatment. So I should be able to see a difference in a few treatments. Today I am 9DPO, if I get pregnant this cycle I will immediately need to have another infusion and also double my steroids and double lovenox. If I am not pregnant this cycle, I will have my next infusion done around CD13 of next one. I was pretty optimistic about this cycle, but at 9DPO and BFN I don't see this one worked. As someone with only a 10-11 luteal phase, it should happen today or tomorrow. I don't feel pregnant though. Either way the good news is I can go forward with another treatment. I won't lie, I am nervous because I don't want to go through that pain again, but I am hoping the changes we are implementing will make a difference. Only time will tell. The most important thing to me right now is we are trying and doing everything possible within our control and we are.
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
Blog suggestions
I am looking to follow some new blogs. Preferably infertility related blogs and it doesn't matter to me if they are currently pregnant or still in the trenches. I hope you wonderful ladies can suggest some good reads!
Go..........
Go..........
Monday, January 13, 2014
I went in this morning and had my RE clinic draw blood for me so I could send to Chicago. Today is one week post IVIG and I am feeling pretty great. The home nurse that does my infusions said once I get past the side effects which usually last a few days, that I would feel really good. She sure wasn't lying. In all honesty I didn't know how much work went into trying to treat immune issues and infertility. I thought I would be doing a few shots of lovenox and taking some steroids, but this has really turned into a full time job. Of course I am not complaining because I know that I need all of this stuff to have a good chance of keeping a pregnancy. I heard back from Dr. Kims office last Friday and she is going to discuss my reaction to the infusion with the infusion clinic. I might not be able to go forward with it since I had such a significant reaction afterwards. If you asked me the days after the infusion if I wanted to do it again I would have told you hell fuck no. Now I am looking back and thinking I want to give it another shot. Hopefully the suggestions that the infusion clinic offered will offset my reaction somewhat.
While I was at my clinic I asked them to do a progesterone draw. Today I am 6DPO. This really confused me. Looking at my chart before crosshairs, I thought I was only a few days PO. That stupid fever I had really messed my chart up this month. So it will be nice to see what the number show and to know that I did in fact ovulate this month. I should also hear back from Dr. Kims office within the next week to know if the infusion lowered my Cytokines. I guess if it did, then that give me a little more hope to know I am going in the right direction with all of this. I am also keeping in the back of my mind that our window is getting so close now. This journey is closer to being over one way or the other each and everyday.
Oh and big news! One of my great friends and someone who has struggled with infertility for years now is currently pregnant. She has been through so much and I was beyond happy to hear the news for her. Wishing her a beautiful nine months! ( YOu know who you are) :)
UPDATE:
Heard back on my progesterone and my levels were 19.4. Pretty good number for me :)
UPDATE:
Heard back on my progesterone and my levels were 19.4. Pretty good number for me :)
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Friday, January 10, 2014
Thursday, January 9, 2014
Feeling Better
I am feeling SO much better, so now back to regular scheduled programing of unicorn farts and rainbows.............
I have sent an email to Dr. Kim and hopefully we can figure something out to help my infusions be a little easier next time.
I have sent an email to Dr. Kim and hopefully we can figure something out to help my infusions be a little easier next time.
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
Part 3 ( IVIG)
Well after I posted yesterday about my knee and headache, things took a turn for the worst and I ended up in the ER. The clinic called and was worried I had developed a blood clot in my knee because of the pain. My headache started getting much worse and by the time we got to the ER I couldn't even keep my eyes open because I was in so much pain. After three hours of sitting out in the hallway waiting on a room my husband went and found the director of ER and told him what was going on. I do love the fact that my husband works with all the directors at the hospital. Thankfully within twenty minutes he came down and made them get me in a room and start an iv with pain meds. I started throwing up pretty bad and the pain meds would only work for about 20 minutes and the migraine was back full force. Thankfully I didn't have a blood clot and they kept me there until 10 last night trying to manage my pain. Finally I told them I just wanted to go home. So he sent me home with pain meds and zofran. Today the infusion clinic called to see what happened. I explained to her about the migraine and said I probably don't want anymore IVIG treatments done. I can't go through this once a month. She is going to call Dr. Kims office and see if they can pre medicate me the next time with iv zofran, pain meds and benedryl to see if that helps the side effects at all. I am feeling much better tonight. I had a very high fever when we got home from the ER last night and it finally broke about six this morning. I am not going to lie, I had a very rough day yesterday. I usually try not to complain, but this absolutely sucked. My next infusion was set for January 31st which is a Friday. I might give it one more shot since it will be followed by the weekend. If I have to go to ER again at least I won't miss three days of work like I did this time. I need some time to think about it. I hate acting like a big ole baby about this and I know I should just suck it up and try again, but I am not looking forward to going through this again or ever for that matter.
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
Part 2 (IVIG)
I'm back. For the most part the infusion went great. My nurse pulled up around 10 till yesterday morning and unloaded all the materials. We went over risks and general information. Then I had time to ask questions about the treatment. Since I have been diagnosed for a few years now with migraines, I did get a headache after the treatment yesterday and it is a pretty good one today. I did hydrate, but it was something they warned me would most likely happen. The infusion took 3 hours and 50 minutes. They start off with a very low dose and then every hour it goes up until the final dose. My blood pressure was amazing yesterday 126/72 which is almost unheard of for me and my pulse was even better at 92bpm! I guess having something like this done in the comfort of your own home does truly make a huge difference on anxiety levels. We talked the whole four hours and she was very interested in my case. She said I was the first person that she has ever done IVIG for infertility. So she asked about my story and we talked and talked. It was so nice to have a person to sit there and listen. She will be my home nurse for every infusion from here on out. We did go over how to do the epi-pen. I guess I have a risk every infusion of a reaction because each infusion is made from different donor plasma. I do feel better that I learned how to use the epi-pen, along with Al and Cierra, just in case anything happens. So all and all the infusion itself was great. I woke up about 1 am this morning with a horrible pain in my knee cap and it continued all night long. When I got out of bed this morning I was in a lot of pain and could barely walk. I did take 4 Tylenol and called the nurse. I guess this is also a side effect of the medication. It can cause joint pain. Honestly though, if headache and knee pain are the only two side effects of this, then I am sold :) Lucky me, I can sit all day at work and not have to walk on it much. She said it should be better within the next few days. My next infusion is set for January 31st at 1:00p.m.
On ttc front, today is CD 14 and look what I got this morning.
This is the first time ever I have got a positive with a digital ovulation test. I am feeling pretty awesome this year. I honestly feel in my heart that this is going to be a good year for us.
Monday, January 6, 2014
Part One (IVIG)
Well I got a phone call from the infusion center this morning letting me know there was some kind of miscommunication. My insurance doesn't cover me going into the center for the infusion, but does cover them coming to my house. I was completely stunned because it is usually the other way around and this could be why the are required to have the epi-pen and benedryl with them. I definitely won't complain though. I would rather have a four hour IV in the comfort of my own home.
I will update later on how things go! My infusion is at 11:00.
I will update later on how things go! My infusion is at 11:00.
Saturday, January 4, 2014
Toni Rapp quilts are back!
As most of you remember, I took a break from my baby quilts a few months back. I was having a problem staying motivated and feeling stressed out that I couldn't sew fast enough to make special quilts for all the ladies who were pregnant after suffering through devastating infertility issues. I had packed up my sewing machine and all my fabric and had decided I was done. The last few weeks I was thinking more and more about my quilts and started to miss it. I realized I was quilting to keep up with everyone and make sure all the woman who were pregnant would receive one. Not because all of them don't deserve one, they do, but it is not feasible to think that can happen. Over the past weekend I got my machine and all my stuff out again and am ready to start quilting. I still have so much to learn and hopefully I will move past making 9 square basic quilts one day. For now I am happy with how they look and I know that each one will be made with love.
Here is where I left off..........................
I had this topper done for a few months. I am going to finish it first.
I was messing around with some of the fabric I have now and came up with this combination for a little boy quilt.
Hoping I can use up the extra fabric I have laying around. They might not all match or color coordinate, but they will definitely be unique.
It feels great to be back in the saddle for this. I loved having a hobby that I enjoy and at the same time doing something nice for another person.
In TTC news:
Monday at 11:00 is my infusion. Friday night I spoke with the pharmacist that will be making the medication. He went over all the risks ( and there are some serious risks involved with this infusion). He scared the shit out of me and I went to bed last night thinking of excuses I could call with Monday morning and get out of this infusion. Then I woke up this morning and decided no matter how scared I am, I have no choice but to go forward. Al and I have come way to far to give up now. I am trying not to think about the actually infusion and enjoy my weekend. He did say I have to be very hydrated when I come in Monday. So I will start tomorrow morning. I am also going to start my steroids tomorrow morning. I was told that side effects are lessened if you are on steroids at the time of infusion. I will let you all know how it goes.
Here is where I left off..........................
I had this topper done for a few months. I am going to finish it first.
I was messing around with some of the fabric I have now and came up with this combination for a little boy quilt.
Hoping I can use up the extra fabric I have laying around. They might not all match or color coordinate, but they will definitely be unique.
It feels great to be back in the saddle for this. I loved having a hobby that I enjoy and at the same time doing something nice for another person.
In TTC news:
Monday at 11:00 is my infusion. Friday night I spoke with the pharmacist that will be making the medication. He went over all the risks ( and there are some serious risks involved with this infusion). He scared the shit out of me and I went to bed last night thinking of excuses I could call with Monday morning and get out of this infusion. Then I woke up this morning and decided no matter how scared I am, I have no choice but to go forward. Al and I have come way to far to give up now. I am trying not to think about the actually infusion and enjoy my weekend. He did say I have to be very hydrated when I come in Monday. So I will start tomorrow morning. I am also going to start my steroids tomorrow morning. I was told that side effects are lessened if you are on steroids at the time of infusion. I will let you all know how it goes.
Friday, January 3, 2014
Funny Infertility Friday
I personally think she doesn't have enough :)
I just received a phone call from the Coram Center here in Oklahoma. My gammagard and actual infusions were covered by my insurance. There are no words to explain how blessed I feel right now.
Having my first infusion at 11:00 am on Monday.
I just received a phone call from the Coram Center here in Oklahoma. My gammagard and actual infusions were covered by my insurance. There are no words to explain how blessed I feel right now.
Having my first infusion at 11:00 am on Monday.
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